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Hi, I am Arveno from Surabaya city. In this content i want to talk about Idol. Recently Indonesian people mourning, there is someone who is really kind person, also an idol, singer, podcaster that fighting with Kidney Cancer for almost 7 years has passed away. He really bring grief to mostly Indonesian people including me.
His name is Vidi Aldiano and he is also younger than me. He is really talented that can make everyone around him will be happy. He can entertain many people just from his appearance. He has kind soul, purest soul i guess. And what make me sorrow is I really really hope that he can beat his cancer since many doctor said that cancer have chance to be gone if the person is happy and his body cell will fight for it. And after the his death announced it really break my heart. It feels that chance for surviving from cancer is almost 0 which is many doctor said that cancer is caused by unknown. It just gifted by some people said or just bad luck for some people said. And losing him made me wonder. How can i idolaze him and since when. I used to have an idol back then when i was in highschool. Not my dad, not my mom, not actress or else. He is my friend that really cool especially if knowing his background story. His life is like rollercoaster from kid. And what make amazed by him is his decision always based from logic and percentage. Thats why i used his way till now. Most of my life after close with him is based on logic and percentage. I will tell the story about him a little. So, basically his ancestor is really rich even my mom already know his ancestor since his father and mother is friends of my mom. And my mom also said that his family is really rich in my hometown. And when we are close in Highschool after we are fighting, he told me all the story. His family once rich, until his parents divorce and broke. His father got caught by police due to fraud (event his dad not do it someone bite him) and then his family got charged maybe around 1M $ at that time and his family cannot afford with cash. So, goverment took all his family assets including his big house, cars, even golds. And then when highschool, he literally helping his mom to took care his little brother. And yes, since he need to be strong, in school he is like bad ass student that always showing off that he can do anything. He does not want to get depressed or look little in front of everyone else. After we are fighting and we are beaten, then he talked to me deeply that he knows that this fight will be draw and both of us will be suffer from damage.But he still doing it because he need to vent all his sorrow and anger by fighting. And that time yes, i do the fight with same reason. I am envy with my brother that treated like much better than me. Thats why all my stress and depression goes to punch. And then we are laughing together and since that day we are befriended. And he was the one that teaching me bad things. From smoking,drinking alcohol,drugs,racing,stealing,frauding, and many rebellious things that almost happened to all highschool student. I did not know that my parents already know what we are doing back then and yet they are doing nothing as long as i am not broke the higher law. If just little law that need to be city prison they will be fine since its just one day or 2 day max. And yes we have been in jail for a day back then because we bring much alcohol to sell and yet we are not 18 years old. And if i think in my age right now that really stupid move and stupid decision. And talking about logical decision. Yes, my friend also teaching me how to do mind mapping, doing simulation on brain and imagination, critical thinking, keep calm in bad situation, and also how to deal with some people by reading the situation and face. And the most important is he teaching me growing gut instinct about people so we can avoid the really bad guy that we cannot deal with them.
Back then we are never gone to psychologist so we dont know what we deal back then, but after testing when we are grow adult, we have similar issues that ADHD. yeah we are both disorder that make us doing rebellious things and yet we can really focusing with what we loved. When High school, my friend choosing as Game Player ( Dot-A, Counter Strike) until he can reach National Championsip, maybe at that time it is not very proud moment. I think we are born in bad timing only. If only we are born late around 8-10 years maybe we can go famous. Thats happened to me too, back then i am basketball player and when i am focusing enough i can be a MVP player. And yeah i got top 10 player in state at that time. But, like i said, we are born in the bad timing, at that time basketball is not good enough for living so my parents forbid me to continue to serious about basketball. And yeah after thinking much with many calculation i decided not to fully on basketball when in college. So, he was my idol until he talked to me before we are going to married that I need change my way of thinking that idolize people is really bad, the only people that must I idolized is the man in the mirror. Yeah he said that I need to be what I want not people want. That words is really stab in my mind until now. So, right now yep maybe i still using his way the calculation, the method of mind mapping, the simulation think in my brain but the role model is myself. What you want to be you can get from the person in the mirror. Thats why right now i never said to my son about role model, he can copying everything in the worlds, just pick the one that suit with him and fit with his life. It can changes too but sometimes there is on or 2 character that will be attached as identity.
So, who your idol guys??
