In the end, we will be ancestors!...

in Reflections17 days ago (edited)




My "message" as a woman is very clear: I don't like them, nor are we here to live by "half measures".

I want to look good, to be noticed by leagues that, I feel very good, from good to better. I don't want to look young, that is, to look like I'm 50 years old. Because I'm not and I'm not that age. In fact, I am functional, I train daily, I run, swim, do urban and country hiking, I walk, I am getting closer to the seventh decade. It's that simple.

A woman is not an "object", in the common belief that, we are all the same, but that every woman is a "person", unique and different.

Getting compliments on your physical appearance is fine. But when someone compliments you on your personality, your mindset, your laugh, how genuine your heart is, that's too nice and it feels different.

Every fall, every battle, is preparing us for something great, even if we feel our heart pounding and still, we keep going smiling, working, caring, working, believing and thanking. Because even in the midst of difficulty, we find small reasons to sustain ourselves, and remind ourselves that we bother alone.

Whenever your self-esteem is low, remember that if your 15-year-old version saw you today he'd think, you're the coolest girl in the world, and sometimes that's all that matters.

As they say, when they congratulate you on your physique, body.. The ego is the one who speaks. When they congratulate you on your happiness for your essence, it is the Soul that speaks.

Sometimes life loses you so that you can find yourself, but when you pretend to be lost, it's so as not to face the truth.

Have you ever felt an attraction to something important someone who seems totally incoherent? That is to say, he does not know how to explain...

The world judges us, points at us, and tells us that this is not the way. But there's something inside that tells you and confirms it by the way: that's the address. And that's when our mind that many of us call "the boss" begins to struggle, between our belief system, the programming, and what is repeated over and over again, and in that battle we disconnect from the purest: Our intuition.

Personally, when my intuition appears, and it is true, it has no doubts: it only has certainty. Then, it happens that between the spirit and the reasoning, action will come. And the worst thing we can do is stay in limbo. Is it taken or not taken?

Because for the spirit there are no half measures. The spirit intuits and our mind "the boss, organizes", the concrete action. It is to stop to feel, and follow the guidance of our heart. Do you dare to face your way? Boundaries are not selfish, they are necessary for healing.

It's time to be yourself. The only competition that exists is with yourself.

Janitze 🌟



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