Forced Silence

in Weekend Experiences15 days ago (edited)

My brother was on the floor with his hands on his head while a guy pointed a gun at his skull. My mother and a neighbor were crouched under a table, also with a gun pointed at them, all in broad daylight...

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I was maybe 12 years old and at home doing homework when I heard shouts and threatening voices. Some guys dragged my mother and a neighbor inside the house while they were chatting outside. My brother, who had been watching TV in the living room before the attack, was probably the one in the greatest danger. He was being threatened with a gun to his head, so defenseless, surely terrified. He was maybe 15 years old.

At first, they also told me to hide under the table, but then they called me over and walked me around the house, asking me where the money was. I just kept saying, "We don't have any money here" (which was also true). I can barely remember how I felt.

I signaled to my mother to stop talking because she was begging, "Please, don't hurt us"... The men, very agitated, were shouting, "Shut up, ma'am, shut up"... I put my index finger to my lips and looked at my mother, trying to get her to be quiet.

They took a few appliances; there wasn't much else to steal. No one was hurt, only a deep bitterness and a feeling of powerlessness in the face of impunity remained, because we knew that any attempt to achieve justice would be futile or even dangerous.

My mother cried after they left. My brother, who was in greater danger, comforted her. I barely remember how I felt or what I did at the time...

I lived in that house until about five years ago, meaning that after that unpleasant incident, I lived there for at least a couple more decades.

I remember that I didn't like leaving the door open. I lived with another brother, not the same one involved in that terrible incident. He liked to leave the door open during the day, and we had many disagreements about it. I always locked it, and he would get annoyed, saying I was obsessive and that it wasn't necessary. He doesn't know that criminals often study their victims to see when they will strike.



This writing is inspired by @galenkp's proposal for this weekend.

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It’s a really terrifying situation. It happened to my brother when he was working at a newsagent’s, and someone pointed a gun at him. He stayed calm, but when he told me about it, I was absolutely terrified. The town where he used to live had become really dangerous!

I believe that showing calm is the most advisable thing to do in moments like these, even if inside we are terrified; it is better to do everything slowly or even remain motionless if we are asked to.

That’s definitely the best option.

I’m speechless!

No one should have to go through such a terrifying experience, let alone at that age. No matter how much you try, it’s a wound that will always be there. But I really appreciate and admire the courage of your brother and your family. I don’t know if I’d be able to cope with such a situation.
Thank you for sharing. Have a lovely weekend. Best wishes.

Those were truly terrible minutes. Yesterday, while I was writing this, I even shed a few tears. I could almost feel my mother's terror, and now I understand my brother a little better. He was truly brave, remaining so calm. I had almost buried that event, but yesterday I remembered it, and it was good to write it down; it's like a release.

Your story is deeply moving and reveals a reality that many face with courage, even in the midst of terror. The experience of feeling vulnerable and powerless in the face of injustice is heart-wrenching, and it is admirable how, despite the anguish, your brother became a pillar of strength for your mother. The sense of mistrust that lingered after that episode is understandable; the need to protect oneself and create a safe environment is a natural response to trauma. It is a reminder of how our experiences shape our perceptions and actions in everyday life.

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