I wouldn't want the stress of massive wealth on any of my children, but even more I wouldn't want the stress of poverty on them. Money can cause great distress, but if managed well, it can also be a tool to relieve great distress.
I have two second cousins who are billionaires inherited form their father. We used to be friends and talk but the minute they got the money they cut off all family. Money does funny things, but poverty is even worse I agree. Education is very important and teach them that before they pay any bills to first pay themselves and put into savings.