Whenever I hear suicide stories, I get upset and say, "Even though you don't have the right to end your life,"
But of recent something happened to me personally, and I began to ponder on how those who committed suicide must have felt before making such a terrible decision.
Like the story of a student who committed suicide just because her jamb score result was low.
After her suicide, other people started speaking up too on their poor performance, not being their result.
Attention was drawn, and there was room for retaking of the exam,which people results came out better and higher than the first one that caused the girl to commit suicide.
Now, coming to the girl.
Lots of things must have triggered her to take such action.
I believe the first is shame, then peer pressure or maybe family.
Yes, there are some families that aren't supportive and always find reasons to blame and belittle your every step.
Yes, most families get first class in comparison and using hurtful words.
You can agree with me that words are sharp swords that cut and pierce through the heart.
When the heart and soul are gone, other emotions can't be controlled.
In most cases, people who commit suicide are surrounded by the wrong people in life.
Or have nobody to even talk to.
i.e., someone they trust and believe.
We all have at least someone to talk to, but in most cases, we limit what we talk about with these people because of fear and lack of trust.
Which is also built by the relationship lane.
I can't say I have been in a situation where I considered suicide but I have been in a situation where I needed to talk to someone.
Lucky me, God blessed me with some positive minded people who I open up to.
Whenever I talk with them,my problem and worries reduce, and most times, they disappear.
No matter how your life has been so far.
Please, try and look for people just don't depend on a person, whom you can talk and open up to.
It mustn't be a close friend.
Just someone you trust, believe, and you are comfortable with.
Please be extra careful with your selection too, because most people are devil in human forms, who can gently lead you to suicide.
Suicide doesn't just happen. It starts gradually with depression and other features.
So, don't allow yourself to reach the final stage.
Try as much as possible to control your emotions.
Make good friends today, that's the reason we are not alone in life.
There is always someone out there for us all.
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