Sometimes in life we love to paint things for ourselves to look good on paper, but that is not what you actually practice.
When we ask ourselves, what is the primary attraction for humans? People will say character, good personality, nice next character. But when we check in real life, we see that that is not the basic.
One of the basic attractions for relationships is physical attraction. People judge others by their physical attraction. Whether you are rich or you are not rich. The first instinct of your mind is, that comes to your mind when you see someone is their physical attraction, how they look like, that is what you might start judging them until you find other things so without even physical attraction someone.
It is very hard to allow people into your space sometimes it might be like if you're not forcing yourself to communicate but you cannot just have that genuine attraction to that person. That is why physical attraction is one of the primary things then other things
can come later. When other things are just evolved without the physical attraction then so many things might actually be missing.
That is why you see so many free relationships relationship that people don't respect each other partners respect each other even though even though it's not
a social relationship we talk about normal friendship and others and other things even though they might have good personalities still there might be something that's really shaking.
The basic of attraction is beauty, money and power and even if you have a good personality and one of these three things are missing you still have problems communicating with people with your good personality that is why you need to also get.
One of these three powers so that your attraction will go smoothly for you so that is life is that I play by the rules or you get kicked out because already strong wing.