I share your feelings, even as a young teen, I had to plan on how to get my weekly allowances by working how many hours of part time, any expenses that's on the way and I need to address it. to heavier and larger decision that not only impact me but also my parents. Day in day out, a lot of decision to make while planning.

At times I wished there is just someone who can take the decisions for the day.
Routine vs no routine.