Indeed, I definitely know that you are, and you said it, balancing Hive and life takes next-level balaning skills! Yes, that is sadly often the case, as I've also seen and experienced.
Concerning your friend, yes, I do encounter women in my sessions with something like that from time to time. From what I've seen, it has to do with a closed heart chakra, with the breastplate like a shield, usually due to trauma or heatbreak. How are her relationships? 😁 🙏 💚 ✨ 🤙