The irony of this post is that as I write it, I'm at a birthday party surrounded by a dozen other adults and another dozen and a half kids. The kids are running around a massive gymnasium and having a blast. Most of the guys have grouped into twos or threes and started talking about work, home improvements, etc. The women are pretty much doing the same, or taking pictures and video of the kids having fun at this party. Me, I'm content to sit by myself, quietly, and think.
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I can be sociable when I want. I typically make the effort when it's family friends, coworkers, etc. When it's mainly people I don't know, I don't hesitate to step back and spectate. Life is hectic enough, so I'm going to enjoy the moments I get to myself.
Introversion As A Superpower
My brain doesn't usually turn off until I force it to by sleeping. I might as well take these opportunities to sit and think. It's when I'll have the most time to do it, often when I come up with ideas for posts on Hive or new improvements to the DUO project I run with @bitcoinman and @thebighigg.
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In an odd way, I look at introversion as a conservation of energy. While others are wired differently and some thrive on social interaction, when I'm around people I don't know it's more mentally draining putting in an effort. I'll still do it sometimes, but when it's optional (Like a non-work function), then for me it's a time to recharge.
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For me, the recharge is important. It gives me the mental energy I need to actively work to mirror the interaction others want. If they want a high energy response, I can deliver that. If they want witty banter, I can put on a show. As a result, I don't come across as rude, distant or self-absorbed. Then, once the "act" is over, I can sit back and enjoy the quiet again, recharge for another time, and enjoy the peace and tranquility of the moment.
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