It may not be a victory for you, but it was a great victory for your mother and father a great joy for your grandparents and your whole family the day of your birth should be the most beautiful and special day of the year in which you do what you want and you do not give a peanut what others think because for better or worse you have come to brighten and change many lives a birthday is not to not congratulate but to celebrate that we continue to be blessed with the precious gift of life.