Camouflaged ...

We slept together, but..., there is an abyss, I mean to be together, but we feel lonely because we talk daily, but we don't understand each other.

Your partner betrayed you.You betrayed your partner.Or both of them were unfaithful. I think we are all unfaithful in disguise, or low profile.

Either way, when someone you trusted cheats on you, it doesn't just break a pact, it breaks something inside of you. I have no doubt that the most fucked up thing about betrayal is not only that they lie to you, it's that they force you to doubt yourself, and self-esteem collapses. It's time to get help to rebuild.

And what I often talk about is not a lack of love, it's that they don't know how to talk to each other, because they leave what hurts, and that undoubtedly damages the relationship. The truth is that when there is silence between a couple, this one screams louder than a lollipop with him or her.

In my experience with my husband there are four things that break a relationship: the wrong routine, the ego that does not give in, infidelity, and the unhealed wounds. This does not get better on its own, it is always good to seek help individually and as a couple.

Love is not enough, nor is it enough if it is not taken care of. It takes will, awareness, and a lot of commitment to oneself and to the relationship.

Being clear is what you avoid the most
The truth is that we all want to love well, but many of us end up trapped in relationships that hurt. Why? Because we learned to love from the wound, from fear. Do you realize that? In fact, many keep repeating the same patterns. That's not a coincidence, it's emotional learning.

Of something if I am very sure friends at Hive: the one who truly loves, always seeks to repair, amend, rebuild always from LOVE, and NOT from insecurity and emotional immaturity.Truly, drama and toxicity end with love, they are part of the masks that we use in every script of the story with our partner.

Last but not least, stop assuming things in a relationship with your partner, at least be honest and stop camouflaging stories that only weapons in your head with pieces that do not exist, andthat generates anxiety, misunderstandings, and emotional wear and tear. If something is not clear: ask, and do not invent.

By the way, everyone in my house is surprised with this new appearance of the camouflaged grasshopper, definitely nature does not stop surprising us, between amazement, laughter, stories my husband and I welcome this new variety of insects that inhabit my garden 🏡. And just like these insects, humans also use various masks to camouflage our true selves. And you, have you seen them before? Don't be a bad thinker I mean this grasshopper!!! .

Janitze.🌷