This applies to everything...

Private life, public life and secret life...

Fate is the one who shuffles the cards, the playing cards, and we just play them. There are those who do want out of personal desire to be alone, and it is wonderful to be alone with oneself, and there are those who have not had the blessing of a soulmate, and are still waiting for it... In the casino, there are for all the betting and gambling games.

In this sense, forcing things does not work...

We cannot reject suffering, we live in spite of suffering. A very difficult task is to accept something that hurts.

I remember that...

I postponed a coffee with a great friend and after a short time she passed away... How it hurts, that feeling is horrible, not to schedule that cup of coffee for another time... I don't have time is a phrase used for pure excuses, there is always time for everything as long as you can and really want.

If we need to complain, fight or make tension to get what we want does not work. Above all, because many times we do not succeed, and if we succeed we will be left with the frustration that it was not because the other wanted, but because you forced it.

To really connect, today is difficult. We're all so busy getting better that we forget to share. It is true that sometimes it is not enough just to send messages on social networks. Of course, not all realities are the same and in this my country believe me there is always something to take care of to keep us alive and safe more than a coffee ☕

We all have busy lives, but when they don't want to match up with one, it shows. I had to understand this, but over time I realized that this was happening to me with supposed friends. Today I thank God for pruning the tree and leaving only the true s branches that despite the storms always remain.

Time is the most valuable thing we have, so I have learned to give my time only to those who truly appreciate it. No one has time for what they don't care about. Besides, in this life, everything is temporary.

There are also times when insisting ceases to be interest and begins to be wear and tear. When we invite to share with intention, with respect, but on the other side there are only excuses, silences or times that never match the answer is no longer in the.what they say, but in what they do.

That's where the real value comes in: knowing how to stop yourself.

Taking a step back is not giving up, it's choosing yourself. It is to understand that our time also has weight, that our presence is not something to be begged for, and that who really wants to share a coffee with you, finds the moment, not the excuse.

Sometimes the best decision is not to insist more, or beg anyone else, but to look at ourselves, to readjust our energy and remember that we deserve reciprocity, clarity and a real desire to share. Because when someone sweats too much, we shouldn't do it to ourselves.

The good news is that life is not for holding on to, it's for inhabiting the present as the only thing that really belongs to us...To those who quietly read me, my post is not perfect, but is mine.

Janitze 💐