Full moon nights...

in Reflections5 days ago




Every day I believe with more strength that love is in our hearts and we recognize it as tonight a full moon night.

I am going through this day and processing it with a lot of emotional intensity, when I find words to talk about this feeling that I feel at the moment I am writing this post. Because it's like entering into areas that I don't understand, where I'm grateful for failures.

When two people look at the moon feeling, without talking, and we both feel the same chill in the chest, that's when the sacred moment happens because both souls recognize each other.

Life can be overwhelming, and stress affects us in many ways. Today I found out via video call that another of my children, after 12 years of marriage, is in the process of separating from his partner. One suffers with one's own love disappointments, but those of one's children have no explanation.

Fortunately, I still have love.
Personally, I think it's key to try to transform our home into a safe space, where we can talk about what we feel and respect that the other feels different. At least allow us the exercise of knowing how the other is doing to approach each other without judging him.

Becoming aware of ourselves, of our emotions and protecting ourselves is key. At least that's what I can share with you right now, without pretending that anything is definitive.

From this space, from this account and from what I do I want to tell you that I also believe that freedom in a couple of so many years of marriage as is the case with my son is a path that sometimes surprises us with unexpected curves, full of mixed feelings, between joy, uncertainty and freedom.

I think that maturity also teaches us that this type of process during the separation between the couple should go hand in hand with prudence. Love is a very great force, which unites us, gives us strength and courage. You just have to let yourself go, give up, be flexible.

We know that a hug cures our soul of scares, that together we are stronger, that nature heals us, that talking, singing, laughing and dancing always soothes our hearts. To many of us these dates confront them with a harmony and joy that was obligatory, something like we must be in a corset, in which we all think and feel the same always, when as I told you one day: if there is any constant in Life, it is Change. And with all the differences in thinking, feeling and ways of living, I wish YOU ALL the best for your lives, that you are very happy and that you are brave to face difficulties with Faith and Determination.

May we all have a gentle, serene day in which hope shines. How hard the goodbyes are!!!

Janitze.🌷



Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia


Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited by me with Canva


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