In nature, no one pretends ...

Feeling anger is congruent with a situation when it is very unfortunate for example that a loved one of one is hurt by others or oneself. It is a complex emotional process.

Every couple has conflicts and fights, without a doubt. The real problem is whether this "cats and dogs" situation is permanent. As a result, they are no longer a couple, they are people fighting with each other. And look, no, it's not like that. The answer to hate, is not "hate" anymore.

Forgiveness takes time. It is better not to judge someone else's life...

Life is a jungle and the law is clear you hunt or they hunt you, that is to say either you learn to fly or you die watching as others do, and they take off free and interdependent flight.

Seriously, I want you to ask yourself if you would be able to forgive the culprit of the greatest pain and heartbreak you have ever felt in your life.

It is of the brave, the one who decides to repair the damages he has caused in his bonds, it is brave who decides to love, who asks for forgiveness and who decides to forgive, it is noble who gives a new opportunity, it is wise to be flexible, love is possible from trust, honesty, empathy, and when it is true it transforms your life, and that transformation is linked to making you feel the best possible person within your own shadows and weaknesses.

There is no possible partner if only one is willing to save and rebuild the relationship. Ask yourself this... What hurts more? Want to save the relationship alone or feel that the other doesn't care?

Regardless of your answer, in a relationship it is not enough that only one of the parties wants to solve it by putting aside the hatred, stopping responding with more hatred. When only one pushes in the relationship, the couple becomes a place of wear and frustration. Continuing to "fight” only leads you to lose yourself in waiting for someone who no longer wants to be... By your side.

That failure speaks to us and shows us where we are still learners, when we chase borrowed dreams and what beliefs we need to revise in order to move forward.

It also reminds us that it is not always the time and to give credit to the failure in the couple's relationship, this applies to all areas, is to honor the process that transforms us ...And although it sounds hard, breaking up is sometimes necessary to put yourself back together with more consequences, strength and purpose, I think this would be my answer to hate. If we love, we must keep the relationship within the limit of love.

When you turn your relationship into chaos, the limit is broken.What if the failure in the relationship was the beginning of something bigger? What do you think?

This beauty of hydrangeas do not pretend, they are natural, ideal so as not to respond with more hatred, to hatred... Nice day...

Janitze 💐