Let your times be real...

There is nothing more sacred than a seeker and his times. To force it is to lose oneself, to honor time is to return home.

I think the problem is not in the leaders, nor in those who think they have all the answers. The problem, and also the resource, is in the search engine. And this happens at the moment, when, instead of looking inside, he decides to look outside. I am one of those who thinks that consciousness begins when we stop delegating the truth, when we understand that no external voice can replace internal time.

These words that I write are a blow of reality, and they were not born of my thought, they were born of my path, of walking, erring, getting right, of putting a foot in front of the another one with no guarantees. Fate does not push us, nor does it get ahead, it's as if it already knows our name and is waiting for us when we remember who we are.

No place belongs to us, we belong to him.

Has it happened to you that everything starts to go well and, suddenly, you damage it yourself? You walk away, you get complicated, you procrastinate, you say you're not ready and you wonder why, excuse the expression why the fuck am I doing this?

This is called self-sabotage. And it doesn't come from failure, it comes from the fear of success, because when we don't think we deserve success, more than getting excited we get scared, because staying on time, whatever it is, demands to sustain yourself, show yourself, commit to your value, and if you are not reconciled with yourself, that terrifies you, because our mind begins to tell us "this is too much for you", "this is not safe", "you can't handle this".

And many times it comes from behind, from having grown up feeling that you didn't matter, that you didn't stand out, so that you wouldn't bother.

Sometimes you have to listen to the signs... Actions, opinions, reactions, even silence is a sign. Stop fighting yourself and start understanding yourself. Ask yourself "What am I telling myself when I'm about to achieve it?"And then answer you, especially with the truth.

Regaining your confidence, your passions and your dreams is part of what it means to heal your self-esteem. Do things that make you feel alive and shake off complexes and insecurities.
It is priceless and it is a tasty plus to be surrounded by people of beautiful humanity.

I have so many things in mind for 2026... that scares me, I must be very objective and procrastinate as little as possible... more discipline, Janitze...Please...Embrace the moments when you feel that you can't take it anymore and share the burden with those who accompany you... will it be?...and the wind kept blowing because the answer never stayed still.

I close my sweet year 2025 with gratitude for the good, the sweet, the hard and what made me raise the standard of the woman I am today.

Janitze.🌷