No one wants to suffer for free...

We don't need anything, we just need the drama... The past is not as static as it seems: it rearranges itself. It seems that there is nothing to be done about what happened, but the truth is that what happens to us today changes the way we understand the past.

We cannot erase what happened, but we can reinterpret. The things that happen today lead us to look at experiences with different eyes.

When you grow up, you see situations differently, you understand differently what you lived before.

Have you ever wondered what would happen if today, that is here and now you decide that your well-being is the number 1 priority??? Well, don't think that things are written in stone. Let's allow ourselves to see how the present changes our vision of the world... because the best time to start is today, as we are with fears, uncertainties, doubts, or maybe with that tiredness that we no longer want to carry alone.

Let's not look for perfection, let's just look for our emotional well-being, and that first step is the bravest we take because it's the one that breaks cycles. And it's not that we don't want to be well, but that they didn't teach us how? The smartest thing we can do, is at the risk of the lack of understanding of others, I mean to get out of that strange and boring slavery of every day.

That's what it's all about when our emotional intelligence helps us live and gives it meaning so that things don't affect us so much, and calm is usually the favorite daughter of boundaries to stop suffering and complaining so much. Although the complaint is always protecting something even if it doesn't seem like it, it is an outlet and a way to avoid or cushion a pain, a deeper suffering.

The complaint comes with a feeling of helplessness, it comes as an identity that sustains us and keeps alive a role, a story, a story of something past.

I'm not missing anything, it's all drama

I think that while we are in the complaint we do not have to accept or decide because the complaint is equal to avoiding.

Sometimes we complain about the food in our house and there is food, we complain about the gym that is always full, but we look for the time to go. We complain about our cell phone being slow, and we have one...we complain about our work, and we have the.i log in to pay the bills... And so many examples of how we don't need anything, we just have enough drama, and victimization.

We could give it a name such that the complaint does not convey something empty, but that we can use it as a tool for advancement, that it sounds active and transformative and not passive or victimistic. The point is that we can see the complaint as a useful protest that generates curiosity, that has direction and that implies that it has direction. Let it be like a claim that builds bridges.

Personally, it is a privilege and a pleasure to wake up every morning to try again, to feel the strength to get ahead again.

Janitze.🌷