Sometimes ...

We are very quick, to judge people and the invitation I make to them is to be more empathetic, to be kinder, maybe we don't know why that person situation, he behaves so apathetic, maybe, we don't know if he has any difficulty, and this is not understood what I'm talking about, justify a bad reaction, if not, simply by being more empathetic by thinking that maybe that person's reaction is like that, product of maybe he has some problem or some difficulty, and I think that helps us to be and to live happier, because we are not taking things personally, but what are we thinking 🤔 as in a positive intention, or we are in a situation, for example: when a person does not greet me, does not say good morning, I, personally, do not get hooked, or stagnate with this situation, then, I think, that thinking like this also makes a difference.

Even many times I do not know if it has happened to you, but when you are kind to a person who is not doing it with you, that person immediately lowers his defense, that is, lowers his guard, and maybe he will have that smile from you 😀 that he has not had all day with anyone else, and if he is a person close to you it is possible that he opens his heart and tells you what is happening to him and we will be that factor of change.

These people can also be a factor of change for us...do you know why? Because we too have had, we have lived, those bad days.

And we also need a smile, from someone who listens to us, because sometimes we are so overwhelmed with what is happening to us, that we don't realize it.

It is possible that you have faced the frustration of wanting to help someone and seeing that it does not work or that you end up carrying all the weight and the other does not improve his situation, nor does he thank you for it.

Without a doubt, when we find a person who reacts in some way or in a different way than we are used to, let's say that emotions transform, evolve, promote change for the better, even if it is a person you do not know, then, from your belief, I ask you to pray for that person and keep it in mind because we do not know the difficulty he has in his heart, even something about his health that maybe he hides and is very afraid to talk about it.

The problem arises precisely from that approach that leads us to want to do for the other instead of doing with the other. To lead to that if someone needs help you can offer it but that if, making him part of the process. So be kind to that person who is waging a battle that you know nothing about. I choose to be kind, and you?

When it FINALLY begins to feel like Summer is in the air ☀️🌷🐦 Happy June, have the best day possible. Janitze 🌹