We must live in eternal gratitude...♥️
Each of us makes sense of a phrase or situation, depending on what we have experienced, but it is also true that we are not always “the victim” of someone or circumstances, fortunately.
Don't waste another stage of your life doing the same old thing. This time choose people who choose you.
Before you keep asking for everything you don't have, start thanking for everything you have. Remember that your "normal day" is a dream for someone else, so: Be grateful.
Accept that rejection, do not beg, do not persecute anyone, understand your value, choose yourself first. Do it tired, do it alone, do it broken, do it with fear, but keep doing it.
Your dreams are worth it ♥️
People think that attachment problems mean that you are needed. But they don't see how to reread the messages. How you get nervous with short answers. How "insurance" can ruin your entire day. It's not about wanting attention. It's about fear.
Maybe because you've been dumped without warning before. Now you try to anticipate before it happens again. You're not trying to cause trouble. You just want to feel that someone won't leave.
It's a search for a safe place, hence the whole mess of thinking if I'm not being a nuisance, if what I said was okay, if I'm feeling too much and I'm going to muddy it, if I said a comment that the other person doesn't like and that little terror of "am I doing it right?"As if everything depended on one...and there's the problem, if you feel this way it's because you like being in that place and you're afraid of losing it, but they only see the part of your fear. And it's not fair.
Such vez...No you are for everyone, and that's normal. Value those who love you and are looking for your company. Don't waste time convincing others of your worth. Surround yourself with those who appreciate and listen to you. Those who don't are simply not part of your path.✨🙏🔥
Has it happened to you? 🙌
But that is out of control, accepting it is the difficult thing, you can't control what goes away, but who you let into your life.
A salute to the people who are in a good place right now. The ones who feel calm, loved and laugh the most.
They really deserve it. After all the hard times, doubts and healing, they have gained some peace and happiness.
That's why I am so grateful to those who understand, who do not push when I close myself to everyone and need a little space to recharge. They understand that sometimes, being alone is the only way I can feel good again.
I hope nothing takes that away from them. I hope your joy is still strong. And if no one has told you lately: I'm happy for you. Really. Keep going. Keep shining.
Nice day, Janitze.☀️
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited by me with Canva
Translation with |DeepL