Throughout my life...

in Reflectionslast month




I've seen many versions of myself... I have been very thin but also... Very overweight especially after my children's matches.

I have had a lot of money and other times very few resources, I have loved a lot, but I have also hated. I've had big wins and big losses. I have counted on the best friends... And friendships that were broken. I have practiced professions, which I then only partially followed. I've also had some good times with my family... And to think, some of my injuries come from there.

I have been a great mother with my children, and in others not so much because I have made mistakes, I have made mistakes.

And that's the way the wheel of life is, nothing is static, everything changes, everything teaches, everything brings meaning to our inner growth and to what we give to the world.

Sometimes a change of look can change your life. When we integrate new concepts and perspectives about what we do and the world around us, something inside of us is activated and begins to transform.

Every day I become more convinced of the importance of values management for life, without moralism or puritanism. Being aware of what moves us internally and making that a way of living.

We learn by doing, not by theorizing.

The problem is believing that the goal of our lives is to have certainty. The goal of our life is to learn, and to learn, we need to doubt. For example, I must confess that I am surprised with the amount of content creators in my country who buy followers.

It happens everywhere in the world, it's true, but that doesn't make it any prettier or better. 😬 Whether you have 500 followers or 10,000, that real audience that is there is part of your day to day: it is a community.

We have to stop living adrift and stop before it's too late. Especially if we feel that every day is the same and that the lack of direction weighs us down and becomes a burden.

Not having a definite purpose does not maliciously affect our mood, but it has real and very serious consequences in our life, due to the lack of clear goals. Lack of purpose increases the risk of mental illness, why there is no "why".

Don't do those things. It's like the exemplary physicist in substance-based networks who calls himself "natural": you send the wrong message to your audience and you stop being authentic.

The year 2025 is coming to an end and what better gift than to take an honest photograph of the current state of your life. Sometimes we keep moving forward without stopping to look at where we really are, what we want and where we are going.

Janitze 🌴



Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia


Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited by me with Canva


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