Sorry... In my venting this day, not just anyone should be able to tell you anything.
In these times everything changed. Previously, in order to communicate with a person, you had to know or have the means to access them. A relationship or even an address and still, there were filters that allowed your life to be more protected.
Today anyone with a phone attacks you, says things without knowing you and can get to a certain point to you. Hate, senseless criticism and no responsibility for the harm they cause are just around the corner.
We all have the right to say what we think, but not to insult anyone just because I don't connect with what you say. I see comments on people's posts that are so full of hostility that it's hard for me to process, because I know many wouldn't say that to my face.
Just because you have a window on any social network, on Hive to express yourself does not mean that you can say whatever you want to anyone. That is, you can get upset about what the other person is or thinks, but I assure you that a lot of what you say behind a screen you wouldn't do it from the front.
There are people who want to see you badly just to help you and show you that only with them can you be well.
I think I must not be the only one who feels this way.
When someone is at a distance, he arms himself with a false courage and says what he wants, but if you put it in front of the other, he inhibits himself. He thinks about it, out of fear or because he remembers that he has a human being in front of him.
Sometimes it's hard for me to understand people who think in this way and that it costs them empathy and sensitivity, it.I have suffered in my relationships because I have noticed that I have an anxious attachment stylemfe.
As I always tell myself, if my brightness, my light blinds you, better get yourself some good glasses.
Such social networks end up dehumanizing us, I think all of us.There are problems that are solved by letting go, letting go. As with computers, when we don't understand anything and you turn it off and on or leave it like that and the next day everything finds its way.
But we live in a world that also takes things very lightly and the truth is that for what is worth of your life you have to fight. Not everything is a superficial discourse of detachment.
But does everything have to be fought for? Should we hold on at any cost? Certainly not... Not to mention that seeing a fragment of someone's life leads us to believe that we know them... and no, that's never the case. If one never finishes getting to know each other, how can someone know you by a couple of posts on social networks, or here on Hive. What do you guys think?
Janitze 💐
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited by me with Canva
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