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RE: The Unfair of Fairness

in Reflections14 days ago

Others think revenge is fucking childish behaviour at all times.

Years ago, I might have been pissed off with this one because I'm too immature and inexperienced to see that karma works its way. You see, life always balances things out—if you emit negativity, then negativity will come back to you. And that actually happened to him because of his choice to balance things out, and made his ex-wife feel the pain he felt from the betrayal.

I don't know if he respected her in the first place, but if he did—that respect was gone the moment he took his revenge. I'm no cheater tolerator, but like I've said, life always has ways to balance things. Like my science teacher stressed out before... every action has an equal and opposite reaction. But I guess he wasn't patient to see what the reaction so he took the matter into his hands, which ended both of them not only them but also their daughter in an irreversible situation. It's so unfortunate...but it's his choice.

And by the way...

Writing is easy.

No, it mostly quite challenging for me because English isn't my first language nor my second, but I do like to write because it makes me feel free. However, it isn't most of the time easy, yet I'm constantly trying to learn more.

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Like my science teacher stressed out before... every action has an equal and opposite reaction.

If he had been a better person, maybe she wouldn't have cheated. Maybe he wasn't paying attention to the right things, or taking her for granted, or something. Cheating is a reaction too.

No, it mostly quite challenging for me because English isn't my first language nor my second, but I do like to write because it makes me feel free.

Writing grammatically correctly might be hard, but the writing, the ideas, the flow, that can be easy with practice. And if you do it in English, you would improve pretty quickly also. My father's first nor second languages were English as well - he ended up being very, very good . But really, some people have language gifts - I do not! :D

Maybe he wasn't paying attention to the right things, or taking her for granted, or something. Cheating is a reaction too.

Yes, maybe he did take her for granted and that cheating became the reaction, but they could have talked it out. But she resorted to cheating rather than opening up, which ultimately was her choice also. Both of them are at fault and chose the choices that they thought would make them feel satisfied, but unfortunately, I know those choices didn't. Hopefully, now that the damages are done, he can move on—they can move on.

But really, some people have language gifts - I do not! :D

Haha same! I do have the ideas, but I somehow struggled writing them down decently. They mostly end up jumbled if I didn't take time arranging them and omitting the redundant ones, but I'm hopeful that with constant practice, I can improve it.