It reminded me of the saying
"Rome wasn't built in a day"
"Writing is easy" - when you have the experince and understanding of the different situation. It does not comes easily, unless and untill you have exposed yourself to life and learn the crux. The clarity in thoughts can makes writing easy and smooth. You spend time on hive wrote some amazing piece and made some good friends and this is complstelly fair.
But fairness in relation depends upon both the individuals mindset. Recently I heard of a divorce case, where the wife is claiming alumini for the upkeep of her parent. Even after she is employed with handsome salary. Will it be fair for the husband? wouldn't he look for some revenge? After good number of years together, once the wife gets an employment she is ready to leave her husband merely because he earns less. And now claiming for alumini. The basic concepts of relationship simply gone haywire in this case.