A clean and clear road often does not lead to a successful ending, and avoiding the rough paths can become a poor option. Success is usually a result of going through the process of dealing and finally winning against challenges. Sometimes the situation may not only be tough but also unclear, however, you can always count on a light ray at the end of the tunnel.
Failures will be there on your way. But you don't have to pay so much attention to them, what's important ate the lessons learned from the experience. And those experiences are the factors that equips you for what is to come. How we perceive things, how we respond to them, and whether we accept the reality in spite of all the hurdles that are on our way, these are all factors that determine how warm the sun will be after it has rained or difficulties have passed.
There is a solution for each obstacle that will eventually lead us to succeed. It is challenging to find a road without obstacles; basically, each stumbling block is a lesson that teaches us something new and makes it possible for us to move to the next level of understanding and consciousness of what is ahead of us. Majority of people make a decision to quit after a few tries because of the obstacles and unpleasantness and thus, they experience emotional blows. It is a very important thing to learn to accept life as a game; every obstacle should be considered a game, with each obstacle being a teacher that teaches us life lessons.
We are living in a world of people with different ideas and different viewpoints about life. We all have a family, something we can do for a living, all of these make living worthwhile and we need to know the right thing to do at all times, what makes us happy, and how we can live a fulfilled life. You are the best of your type, which means that rather than comparing ourselves to others, we should learn from each other and push ourselves to reach our full potential.
Earlier today I came across a Facebook article, a very emotional piece, telling the number of times the author had failed in life and how he had managed to rise above all the setbacks to become the winner he is today. He is a real inspiration to me, a true fighter, and I can't help but admire his invincible courage to endure the defeats and disappointments. His article made me think of my personal struggles and failures in life and I am still failing.
Those overwhelming disappointments, the financial crashes, the professional betrayals, the times I felt like an utmost failure, were a kind of personal annihilation. Yet, every failure has been a teaching and a preparatory class for me to help me to the next one, in the game of survival. I am taking my next game with full power and focus, being fully aware that I will get the victory because the lessons I learned were too difficult to be put aside easily.
Each of us has experience difficult situations in our lives, be loss of a job, going bankrupt, getting into a toxic relationship, having a failed business, to being bullied in school or getting sick. Learning from "lighter" problems is good in life, but it is equally important to grasp and recognize those that emotionally drain you the most, and at that point, it is crucial to confront them with all your strength in order to survive that hurdle.
Life has many hard times, and it is only when we face them that we are able to overcome the challenges and obstacles. Therefore, in order to come out victorious, we have to move past the situations, rise above our history, and it is by the fight against defeat rather than the yielding that our destinies become made.
In case of failures being the barriers on the road to success, then be certain that your failures are excellent enough to learn from rather than quitting. Hold on to your hope, keep chasing your dreams, and never at any point yield to Defeatism, instead, confront the challenges directly. The secret to success lies in treating life as a game and in learning to be resilient when you are under pressure. That is basically what counts in the end.
To all of you that dream of becoming what you have been fantasizing about, whether you are a loser-fighter that has been defeated numerous times or a stubborn person that wants to believe that the dream will still come true, no matter what, I have only one thing to say to you: keep fighting, keep believing, and don't stop