Hi, I am Arveno from Surabaya city. in this content i want to that when we are gone, we are literally gone and all just memories and over some time it will be fade. I feel it by myself today. It seems sad but we cannot doing anything to prevent this happened.
So, yesterday me and my wife decided having holiday on our hometown. We are going back, yeah my wife and my son have school break holiday. But, i am not having any break at all. All my work still goes on since i can just monitoring using mobile phone. And i can work anywhere as long as they are having internet in that place. And today my parents ask me to help them to take some of my grandma stuff from my grandparents old house.
If you dont know i already shared that in the last few years my grandpa died. And that makes my Grandma live with my aunt right now since my grandma cannot live in cold weather right now. She has bone illness that will make her really in pain if the weather cold. And my hometown located on highland. So, in half year can be certain the weather will be cold like literally right now after the rain season over.
For your information in these past years my grandparents house is for sale. And the news just reached me today that this house is sold. So, my parents need to take some of my grandparents stuff and place it into my parents house. I dont know my parents will sell it or just keep it.
Look at this house, it feels old and abandoned, i take my son to looking into this house and yeah at least he will remember and i dont know at least my grandparents story will not ended just in my era. I dont know lately i felt afraid that after we died what we can left in the world is just memories. And my family are not influencer or public person that why i know how the ending ouf our family names. Maybe it can long lasting until 2 generations and then all the story and the memories will be gone forever like i never existed in this world. And i cannot do anything for this cycle. Maybe almost all people having same situation with me. Or maybe i just the one that too overthinking.
All the warm greetings and warm vibes gone to be cold vibes since there are no one in this house anymore. I dont know how my father feels when coming into this house. Even though my family is not close to my grandparents from my father side. But still sometimes we are still visiting this place to drop by and just say hi. But, luckily my son still can met up and still remember with his great grandparents. I think thats kinda miracle because nowdays many people died in young age or it is like me having kid on the late ages. Like my parenst age right now is more than 60's and my son still at 6 years old. If my son can marriage in young age consider it at 25 my parents age will be more than 80's. And all of us did not know how long my parents will be live.
But, still i am grateful especially when i heard this house is sold. At least it will make my parents duty easier since they are no need to taking care this empty house anymore. And i can helping to calling my transporation fleet to take care to moving all the stuff there into my parents house. But, here my conclution. I dont know how to make our story can longlasting in this worlds. I think the only longlasting in this worlds are just prophet and some of human that too genius like Albert Einstein that the name always be told from time to time. And what can i do right now is just making more memories to my next generation that is my son. And what i mean is literally good memories with him. Be present, be friendly, be kind, be firm, and be a good example to my son. So, my son can tell to his kids later that his parents are good parents and very lovely parents.
