norms norm norm..... DUCK DUCK DUCK lol
Here I am fighting a very hard battle to not accept DOWRY xD
I am told I must have atleast 10 lac if I don't wanna accept DOWRY lol
so the bride must have everything new? frige, bed, machines u name it.....
The point was never to less burden the other family and burden myself instead
The point is, a couple can live happily without materialist DOWRY stuff and when she finally come as part of a new family, she can buy whatever u think is needed.
THERE IS NO DUCKING NEED FOR EVERYTHING TO BE NEW lol