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When we were just born and do not know at all anytime out the surrounding, what to eat, what to wear, how to talk, how was their to feed us when were where not capable of doing all those activities etc etc. who was their to take care of us, that were our parents. We do not realize how difficult and responsible task is to make a family and take care of them. That is the reason the family is always called out first love and for whole life we felt attached to each other. Not only the parents our grand parents our siblings are also stand with us whenever we required the help form them. I see how my elder daughter take care of my younger kid when ever we asked her too. Always keep in mind we come to the life because of our parents and our kids come to existence because of us and this circle of life keeps going on. What I observed form my surroundings and form my life that everything goes absolutely fine till the time the kids were depends on the parents or family. The problem mostly started when they kids started their family and they want the fresh start. The first step in this scenario is to live independently. Their is not bad in living separately but if the parents also need their child to take care of them. Do not forgot that the parents were also stand with us when we need them but now when they are in a position that they need someone to take care of them and we left them along is not justified. Their may be some moment in the life when you feel that they are interfere in your life or you are not able to enjoy your life because of them, or you are not able to move forward in your life because of them. But always keep in mind that the parents were also in the similar condition when we were kids. I have seen many mothers, who left their carrier so in that they can take care of their kids in better way.
The financial burden may also be one big reasons but their ka nothing impossible as this can be managed by separating our needs and desires. Listing to the wife and focusing on our kids only and not taking care of parents is a foolish act in my opinion as we always should always keep in mind that we will also get old and we will be also grand parents one day and that will be day when the whole picture will move in our brain. I would like to share a story which I listen when I was a kid. It's a story of father and his son. The father was well established and when he was in old age he handed over his wealth and business to his own son. The son was married and they are where living in same house. Everything was good when the father was holding the business but once the business goes into son's hands he started creating the scene at home. He start ignoring his father and oms day comes when the son and his wife make a plan to kill the father as now they consider him a burden, how is eating their wealth and siting at home. They father also get the sense but he was keep quiet. The son's plan was to take his father out and push his the river near to their home. The father was in old age so the son lift him on back and went to the river. When he was about to thrown him in the river the father asked his son to go further in the river to throw his. The son asked the reason and shocked when father reply that this is the same spot where he thrown his father. This is the cycle of life and we will also have to harvest what we have sow in the past.
Do you think a mother will distancing themselves from her kids even if she know just after the birth that the kid is special. Mother does not do do that that is the reason she is mother. We can distanced form the friends we do not like or the colleague form your office may be because of any reason but when we talked about the family then we can consider them same as other. The family members are special and we can do anything for the family as also expecting the same form the other members of the family. If I may be in such situations I will always choose the family first and the situation become complicated when their is a conflict between two members of the family.
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