Greetings everyone!
If my partner reads minds?
I once watched a movie, one of my favourite series, The Legend Of The Seeker, and in one of the episodes, there was a boy named Renn who could read the minds of people. I saw both sides of the gift. While it was good because no one could hide things from him, and also how, if put to good use, it could fetch money, it was still bad because he could use it to harm people.
So, if I found out that my fiancée or wife could read my mind and knew all my secrets from the start of the relationship, well, it would not be a big deal for me because, actually, I like being honest in relationships. That would even guide me more to be even more honest. But the problem is, I hope she is going to be as open as I am because people with such a secret, once they know you are clean and committed, tend to become the opposite. They have the power, and there is no way I would know.
While such a relationship can be very smooth, especially from the guy’s side, in the long run, things might get sour. How?
I'm a guy, and men are created in such a way that there are things they do not like opening up about—be it a problem or a secret plan they're arranging, not to harm the family or relationship, but just something they would want to reveal when they are done with their plans. In this kind of situation in a relationship, I would just find it hard to sometimes have a plan of my own or just bear that little problem I would not want anyone to know about.
Anyways, I would not have any issue if I found out that my fiancée has the ability to read minds and knows all my secrets, if there is any that could be tagged as dangerous. I would not call off the relationship. But the issue is that, since she knows my secrets and is able to read my mind, I hope she will be as open as I am, seeing everything about me. If she cannot, or uses her ability to remote-control me, nope, there is no way such a relationship is going to work. The openness must be mutual to the core—100%. Anything less than 100%, even 99% from her end, is a deal breaker for me.
If I knew from the start that she was a mind reader, I would go into that relationship with her only when we agree on the terms and conditions of being mutually open.
But hold on, if her ability to read minds is diabolical, like one sourced from the marine kingdom, there is no way I am going to continue that relationship. I cannot imagine myself being in a relationship that has deep spiritual connections other than the Christian religion I know. If she is an ogbanje and I happen to find out halfway into the relationship, I am running away immediately!
Thanks for reading.
