Hello everyone!!!
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The place where I live is such a wonderful place that here parents love to teach their children's about ethics, manners and love to give them proper education. They want to see their kid as an educated person and a well mannered child but when it comes about sex education, they never talk about it, they feel shame, they think it's just about sexual or physical relationship and they ignored it silently.
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My story getting sex education!!!
I belong to a family where people don't discuss about it openly and feel like it's like a sin or a shameful act. I remember when i went to high school, i choose biology and as my Dad is a government teacher so I get my home tuition from my Dad during evening mean after school if i need any help i took help from him , sometimes getting help from Mom too but for science and math i always went to my Dad.
It was summer holidays and we've a proper syllabus to cover during that month, we've reproduction chapter in our biology class, high school was so young age for me to understand real meaning of it, during summer holidays i took classes from my Dad and one day i was reading the lesson of reproduction in front of my mom, and she asked your Dad give a lecture to you on this and i said yes without any hesitation and because at that time i took it as only a subject because our age was without mobile phone and internet as now high school students know about it but we're naive lol.
My parents never teach me about this, only my mom told me about bad touch when I start my teenage but other then this she told me nothing. Sometimes I really feel that I've a strong bond with my mother but why she always hesitate to talk about it, as we never did maybe it's because of society where people only think it's just a relationship but they forget about the part of protection which is important thing to consider.
What should we do??
In my opinion, just like other education sex education is necessary too, it's not a crime if you say this word openly, people need to change the mindset, maybe that's the reason that now children sex is very common here, i heard mostly that men's trying to play with kids which is too dangerous, they enjoyed to touch the kids which is crime and we should talk to our kids too that you shouldn't go there again if you're not feeling uncomfortable or feel something like this.
Being a high school teacher and a teacher too my experience is with kids or students about the sex education too like we don't discuss it openly. But I taught girls about their menstrual cycle too that there's no need to worry about it , you've it as it's a part if our body, really in a high school when sometimes girl have their first time menstrual period they start to crying and i feel like what kind of parents are that don't even tell about it to their girls.
Final thought's!!!
Believe me the generation is so fast, i spent time with kids and they know quit a lot because of internet and mobile and many times i heard their gossips silently and never jump in their gossips because they never make a part of such conversation to me but after a week i start to discuss about it in any other way with the change of words because they need to know about something's properly which could protect them.
That's all for today and it's my entry in this week hive learner contest in #hl-exclusive for the topic of #hl-w227e1.
