First of all, I really find the concept of variation attractivr and so humanistic. Like, in a world of eight billion people, every individual has the right to have one's own opinion. This is what makes this chaotic world a beautiful place.
Secondly, there is no doubt that change begins at home first. If I am not following a certain rule, then how can I ask other to follow it? Yes, I can still give my opinion but, it will have bare minimum impact. In this corrupted world, we are used to blame every other person, and not self. Although, it takes a lot of courage to deconstruct the already constructed approach, yet change is inevitable.
In the end, be good, be honest and be the real you. World will follow for surely!!