That is true. He would also have a past but it would be brushed off because he is a man.

Women dey suffer o. But this is heads up for some ladies to stop making wrong choices and if eventually, wrong choices have been made and a new leaf has 🐝 turned over, then honesty will do some good. Let the intending partner know about some things, then let him choose if he wants to continue or not.

This reminds me of another story if a lady who grew up in Enugu state but she was brought back by her aunt who runs a bar and you can imagine what followed. This aunt sold this girl to various customers. To cut the long story short, that girl ended up aborting nine children.

When she finally able to leave her aunt's house and be independent, a suitor came. A few weeks before they would travel to the village, the girl opened up to her husband to be about her past and luckily, the man loved her enough to stand with her.

Truly, at the village during the traditional marriage, her aunt took the groom aside and began to tell him all that the girl did when she was with her. This aunt didn't want the girl to be happy but unfortunately, her plans backfired as the man not only went ahead with the marriage, he exposed the aunt to the family and she was excommunicated.

I think that the reason this ladies case was bad was because she pretended to be a Mary even to her parents whereas, she was living wild.

Na wisdom all of us need o.

Happy new week sis🥰