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in Freewriters3 days ago

It is said that people break like glass, a rather striking phrase in my opinion, in fact I agree, the sensitivity of some people is put to the test on many occasions

Se dice que la gente se rompe como el cristal, una frase bastante impactante en mi opinión. De hecho, coincido: la sensibilidad de algunas personas se pone a prueba en muchas ocasiones.

I have always thought and I still think that it is NOT a good thing to let people discover our weaknesses, that is to say, we all have our Achilles heel, we are vulnerable in every sense and if we add sensitivity we are lost, some people decide to take advantage of this and that is where people break like glass.

Siempre he pensado, y sigo pensando, que NO es bueno dejar que la gente descubra nuestras debilidades. Es decir, todos tenemos nuestro talón de Aquiles, somos vulnerables en todos los sentidos y, si a eso le sumamos la sensibilidad, estamos perdidos. Hay quienes deciden aprovecharse de esto y ahí es donde la gente se rompe como el cristal.

So what....DO NOT let anyone discover your weak point, they will surely take advantage of this to hurt you, in this life we ​​have to be very artists without ceasing to be ourselves, having a strong appearance imposes respect, even if inside you are the most sensitive person in this world...I wish you a happy weekend

Así que... NO dejes que nadie descubra tu punto débil, seguro que se aprovecharán para hacerte daño. En esta vida tenemos que ser muy artistas sin dejar de ser nosotros mismos. Tener una apariencia fuerte impone respeto, aunque por dentro seas la persona más sensible del mundo... ¡Feliz fin de semana!

The photo is mine taken with the SAMSUNG S20FE cell phone

La foto es mía, tomada con el celular Samsung S20FE.

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That's a good tip and a hard lesson to learn. Unlike many I don't believe in what doesn't break us, makes us stronger.

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I was there yesterday, I like this place, thank you very much for visiting my lonely blog hahaha, on this panel I have found some people who have wanted to screw me, pardon the expression, but I am still here defending myself with my best weapon, indifference, I know how to work, I am disciplined and persevering, so that is what I will do.

Quite a hard lesson to learn.

Exactly, but it helps us to be stronger, to have more personality, to be more independent, that is, if we do not allow ourselves to break, this transforms us and in a very good way, the bad thing is remembering, and memories never disappear, at least for me.

You know... Memory is an interesting topic in this context especially. I have an incredibly detailed memory that goes back to a very young age. The feeling attached to memory is what I'm referring to...I have sometimes wondered if... Much the same as they say women forget their childbirth experiences and it's a natural thing that the brain does, otherwise there might not course to ever have another child. I don't know if that is true.. But it's a theory. It seems plausible. My own theory is that many women also forget a lot of the painful and turn things that have happened to them in abusive "love" relationships and maybe it is something that the brain does in a similar way.. So that you can try again.. But then, they forget early warning signs maybe.. And also the same repeating lessons about the need to trust their guy feelings, not make excuses for bad behavior, etcetera...
Maybe.

In relation to memory, I am a man who is 21 years old, life has been hard on me, I do NOT forget absolutely anything, my childhood was very complicated, full of bullying, if people knew the way they affect people like ME with so much evil, maybe they would think better, but I do not break easily, in fact I took advantage of so much evil to get ahead alone, and now that those in my own family need something from me they seem to forget what they did to me, but I do NOT forget, it does not matter that they are family, I do not want to get close to them, they do not deserve anything from me and they will have nothing

Right on. I'm glad you've found this resiliency in yourself. I think feeling that way in childhood can cause the mind to recall great detail, for protective purposes... You turn that shit all to gold! Go right on. You know that the saying, "blood is thicker than water," originally meant that the tires we create outside of family are the stronger deeper bonds... And now people throw it around when they want to tell you that you should be loyal to your family even if they have winged you terribly. Isn't that ironic? I think forgiveness is something that we do for ourselves to empty ourselves of the poison... And it does not mean that we have to continue to afford people new chances to cause it's further harm. If they have proven that they are disloyal then we owe them no sort of loyalty. And bullies can bite a poo. Maybe they will take stock of themselves someday and ask for forgiveness, but maybe not.

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