Happy Saturday to all💕 I hope you are enjoying your weekend! Over here they are a lot of rain, but well here I am to participate once again, and without hesitation I'm going for this one👇.
Bueh, After almost eleven years with my negrito and with my two terremotitos running all over the house, one learns a few little things about how to keep the flame alive😂 even if sometimes I end the day feeling like teleporting to a desert island for a couple of days hahahaha.
but well, thinking about what really makes our relationship work, despite the times where we have not been 100% happy😂 but based on these almost 11 years these are my recommendations:
Communication: and this is something that has been hard for me to learn because I wasn't much of a talker, my husband has helped me a world to let go of what makes me uncomfortable and what doesn't, although he has to prefubt me a couple of times What do you have? 😂 but it is important to talk about our fears, our joys, those dreams that sometimes we forget in a drawer. Knowing that he really listens to me, without judging me, and that I also listen to him, is fundamental. Sometimes we don't have the solution to everything, but feeling understood is already a gain.
Mutual respect, always! This for me is the basis of everything. Respect their opinions, even if sometimes I don't agree. Respecting his times, his spaces, his tastes (even if sometimes he torments me with so much yelling😂). Knowing that he values me as a person, as a woman, as a mom, and that I value him for all that he is.
The complicity and humor. And in this my husband is an expert hahaha but over the years, one goes through so many things, good and not so good, that having someone who always seeks to get a smile when you are in a bad mood eaoa days or who understands that complicit look in the middle of a meeting hahaha I love it!!! It's like having a companion for adventures, even on the grayest of days.
The details, I'm not talking about expensive gifts (although if he gives me a car I don't bother😂) I mean that little coffee he makes me when he knows I slept badly, that little message on my back or touching my hair to make me sleepy😂😍 It's those little things that make you feel loved and remind you that despite the routine, love is still there.
Unconditional support. Knowing that, no matter what happens, he will be there to support me in my projects, in my moments of doubt, in my craziness, and that he knows that I will also be there for him, in good times and in bad! Life sometimes gives you a few twists and turns, and having someone by your side who tells you "go for it, you can do it" or simply hugs you tightly, is a treasure.
In short, I still feel that my life with him and my children is the most beautiful thing that has ever happened to me💕.