Age doesn't define maturity

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Greetings everyone, I'm glad to participate in this hiveghana weekly prompt “Age and Maturity”

Age is not determined how you mature, because age is just a number, age doesn't define your intelligence, maturity it's the way you speak and handle things, that's when people can say you mature, there's a lot of older people that we're following that they're not mature enough to even handle their family, but because we have seen that all hair is white will we now say it's mature that's wrong, age doesn't define his maturity.

According to Kari Max in one his book that he wrote he said “Young fool will become Older later” these mean that someone that fool at young age also grow up to become older person one day, that shows your age doesn't define your maturity, well you can be older and still be doing like childish in your ways, have ever you ever seen a scenario that someone that's older will Speak and you as a Young Man will be wondering that how can someone that is older like this can be speaking in such a way, have seen those kind of scenarios several times, that's why I concluded in my mind that age is not determined maturity.

This topic make me remember the issues that happened in my friends family there was a girl that this my friend is dating for longtime and the girl is disturbing my friend to let them get married but this my friend use to tell that he have not ready and the girl will tell my friend that until you lose me to another man's hand and my use to answer her that if she want to go she can go, well let's cut the story short few years later both agree to marry themselves and they have been planning to get married in few months but this my friend call me that he noticed something about his wife and I asked him what is that, he told me that his wife has got pregnant with another man and ask him how did he know and he said her friend of his girlfriend told him that and I told him to inform the older person in his family and he replied me that's what he wants to do also.

Few weeks later they went to meet an elder person in my friend family and I also follow because everything happens in my present, and before we reach the place my friend ask his girl that who's responsible for the pregnancy she had and girl said it is him and my friend replied that is a lie, to cut the story short when we reach our friend family place and my friend table all the matters to the elderly person in their family, that he's no more doing wedding again that her wife has got pregnant for someone else, but when drag the matter the elderly person said that our friend must married the girl that nobody is above mistake and he made mention that “we're all ears” that's the second time I confirm that age is not determined maturity.

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Perspective makes life beautiful while I respect your opinion on this topic, I will like to differ by saying there are always exception to the rule as not in all cases foolish people grow old too. Some times age becomes a determinant for measuring maturity as with age comes experiences and these experiences are lessons that ushers one into maturity. It should be worth noting that ones ability to handle situation mostly stem from their life experiences and what makes you mature if not how you are able to handle things and resolve crisis? That being said, I would not totally condemn the elder. Your friend if he's mature enough would not judge his wife to be based on hearsay because friends can also be snakes and tarnish your reputation out of jealousy. There are several ways to resolve issues like this not him jumping into conclusion over an allegation that he has no concrete proof.


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That your friend's elderly relative head is not correct. Thanks for sharing.