Rejection is something I rarely experience, but then, a one time post view can be rejection 🤣😁
But does it hurt to feel rejected? it doesn't feels hurt, it can be so, depending on who was the person or who was him/her to us.
The deal is, he invited me to come check out something, and as someone i know, i gave him the honour, but i was there, to check the stuff out, i find out the message he sent was a "one time photo view.
You know what comes to my mind first? i thought of a phishing link, even when i knew it was not, I can't bear to think of anything else, because it was so unfortunate to have him sent me that kind of post, that is to say that, he didn't want me to view it twice, or maybe, go back to check later.
As i did not know why he did that, i have to let it be just as he sent, and i refused to open it.
So, since i didn't open the message. This evening, he asked, "if i did check the stuff he sent me? I didn't lie, because I don't like to. The deal is, I can act funny in many ways, if I find the person good to talked to, but you see lies, I dislike it so much, so, I went ahead and tell him the truth, which was that, "I didn't open the message, because it was a "one time view message.
I went further that, I didn't expect him to sent me that kind of message, if he has trust issues, when it comes to me, he should open up, because, I seems not to understand why he forwarded that kind of message.
He went on to express to me his reason, I understand with him, because I see him as a friend, and it will be so not good for me, if I didn't see reasons with him, it will only means, he wasn't my friend at all, so, to make it short, it was a good stuff he sent actually, and he makes me smile.
This makes me still get it that, people finds it hard to understand people, only when they choose to. Take for instance, seeing that one time message truly pissed me off. Yes, it does a lot, but what I did was to talked it out with him later on, and make sure he never make me feels rejected in his attitude again, because it was just the way i feels.
Worst I will have done will be silent at him, and concluded, he does this or that, yet, this is people we are talking about, he/she dealing with you in a daily basis isn't perfect.
Sometimes most of the things they do, or their action's towards us, they might think it right, not knowing it is very wrong. Then, you that have known this, should give them correction, because the correction might be why the person have to perform it in your presence.