Confidence is one of the key factors to personal development. It’s very important to have confidence in yourself. Confidence is to have self assurance and faith in yourself . Being confident was one of the things I struggled with when growing up.
Being confident was such a huge challenge for me during my school days . I’ll rather drink a jug of lemon than to participate in departmental presentations even if it cost me to loose my score . And I was also this type of person that always lean to others just to get more comfortable whenever people do things to me I barely defend myself all I do is to let things go regardless of how terrible people threat me . As time goes on I learnt how to defend myself and I also gathered the confidence to participate better in all my assignments including my projects .
Being confidence confident brings a lot of good things like good mental stability , anyone who’s confident will definitely have a good mental stability because they will be a in a good frame of mind . The importance of confidence help’s in better performance , someone whose confidence is more likely to deliver his/her job regardless of the opinion of others . Self confidence brings many happiness , good vibes & positive attention and it reduces social anxiety . Being able to be present yourself without fear and anxiety can help in achieving so many goals and opportunities . A lot of people have missed out opportunities because of lack of confidence .without confidence and faith people can doubt your ability to do something even if you know you can do it .
When someone lack confidence it’s very easy to for people to notice and they will definitely treat you the way you treat yourself. It’s so important for every individual to put themselves first and make sure they aren’t just seeking validation from anyone before they feel confident .
Low self esteem is a negative attitude that leads to sadness , anger and guilt . It’s very important we learn how to belief and have faith in ourselves without too much opinions from other’s , sometimes too much advice from others can distract you from making good decisions . It’s very important to be very confident in our decisions .
I’m so happy for growth and personal development . I never believed a day will come when I’m really okay to express myself , after all my years in uni I never knew I’ll be so comfortable talking to people without feeling some type of way ,I’m so grateful for personal growth I’m so happy I’m not limiting myself from the goals I want achieve.