We are the believers in Jesus and we know what is the will of God. Should we say that we do not know what God has commanded us? We do know. The problem with many of us is that we do not want to obey the word of God. We want to do what seems right in our eyes. But we cannot please God when we continue to live our lives without total submission to the will of God. God hates sin. He has never manage sin before. He instructed us to turn away from all sins and follow his ways. So, in whatever we do let us consider what pleases God first.
We should not judge others. The Lord Jesus Christ told us that we should not judge others so that we will not be judged. Our actions should always be to please God and Him alone. If you happen to be caught in a place we you and your finance had to spend the night together, let your heart decide to honour God with your body and to bring glory to Him. We know that God is not honoured when we engage in sinful practices. Therefore, we should avoid getting into tempting situations in our lives. It better to run away from sin like Joseph did.
It is not good for two people who are not married to sleep together. They should not sleep together. When we are in relationships before getting married, let us try to keep ourselves from falling into fornication.