My Actifit Report Card: September 16 2025 : Happy Chooseday

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Hello Amigos

Welcome to my Actifit report for Tuesday, 16th September 2025.

I have come to realize that our family and friends contributes to life challenges.

They just pressure you anyhow, thinking it's the best way to push you to become someone great.

Yes, I understand that when you pamper someone too much or leave them as they are they won't be able to make a move.

I also know that no matter how you tend to push someone, let there be a breathing space.

Don't push too hard and always look out for the warning signs of it being too extreme.

Some just continue to do things without taking notes of what can cause serious harm to the other.

It's even enough when the person starts to avoid you or feel ashamed.

These are signs of guilt, weakness and life beginning to fall apart.

The person needs a hand to hold onto, even if you don't want to be that hand, please just stay still, don't just do anything.

Yesterday, I heard a story of a lady who the husband left her with their baby girl and traveled abroad.

It was obvious that the man traveled out just to hide from her because he didn't really love her.

This woman fall prey into the hands of Chief,also a married man, so she cheated on the husband.
This action caused a huge damage in her home.

The husband came back and filed for a divorce, which she refused to accept.

She was eager to bring her family back, the husband took away their child who is now grown (14 years old), saying she is a bad influence to the girl.

She pleaded for forgiveness which wasn't granted.
Though, she did something silly of fighting with Chief's new side chick and the video went viral.
This made the daughter who was initially in agreement with her to stay away and refused to talk to her.

The woman having seen that she had lost everything, took some medicine to end her life but was lucky to be rescued.

My Tuesday went well.

I washed some clothes but the weather was just changing at intervals.
This minute, it's cloudy the next minute the sun is out.

My clothes eventually dried.

I was able to achieve a few things for the day as well.

It's a good day to be grateful to God for everything.



Thank you very much for visiting my blog 😘💕

Wishing you a wonderful day 😊

All photos are mine


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16/09/2025
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Daily Activity, House Chores, Photowalking, Walking

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Such a pathetic story. As much as I believe we do not have any reason, whatsoever to do evil, because we always have a choice, there are cases that makes me think twice.

The man left the woman here, with a child, probably for months or years without showing concern. What was he expecting? It would have been best they divorced than staying married and being apart, we are humans, we need our partners close by, if not often atleast most times.

Both the man and the woman were wrong. He actually pushed her to the wall and for her, she was supposed to realize that she is bounded by marriage vows.

Putting myself in their shoes, I don't know what decision I would have made if I was either the man or the woman, after the incidence.

Well, it's such a lesson for us all...

Please, dear, how do I go about participating in alive/ actifit fitness tracker?

Yes, both of them are wrong.
But I believe they can still work on their marriage.
Nobody is perfect.
Distance contributed to the whole mess, since they are together now.
I just hope they would put their heads together to make it work again at least for their child.

Okay for the Actifit.
You will have to download the app and login with your hive username and posting key.
Then, you allow it to count daily and post.

It's painful o. It might be hard for the man to take her back, considering that video that went viral too. But I pray they come back too.

Okay, can I find the app on playstore? What's the name?

And for the post, is it random posts or there are specific topics?

Sorry for the disturbance 🙏

Yes.
You can find it on playstore.
https://bit.ly/actifit-app

It's daily activities like a daily blog.
So, there is no specific topic.
You can spice it up with whatever you feel like in your write up.
But mostly physical activities are encouraged.

You are not disturbing at all.
I am glad to help.

Awnn.. thanks a lot for the time and the help... Ya such a darling..

You are welcome
I am still here for more information.

I have downloaded the app and logging. It is counting while I walk. My question now is, does the box counting has to complete counting before I make I post or, whenever I am tired I can take an off for the day?

Just allow it to count your activity for the day.
The higher the count the better it becomes.
It stays locked in your phone background, so it doesn't disturb anything on your phone other than run down the battery a bit.