Hello Amigos
Welcome to my Actifit report for Tuesday, 16th September 2025.
I have come to realize that our family and friends contributes to life challenges.
They just pressure you anyhow, thinking it's the best way to push you to become someone great.
Yes, I understand that when you pamper someone too much or leave them as they are they won't be able to make a move.
I also know that no matter how you tend to push someone, let there be a breathing space.
Don't push too hard and always look out for the warning signs of it being too extreme.
Some just continue to do things without taking notes of what can cause serious harm to the other.
It's even enough when the person starts to avoid you or feel ashamed.
These are signs of guilt, weakness and life beginning to fall apart.
The person needs a hand to hold onto, even if you don't want to be that hand, please just stay still, don't just do anything.
Yesterday, I heard a story of a lady who the husband left her with their baby girl and traveled abroad.
It was obvious that the man traveled out just to hide from her because he didn't really love her.
This woman fall prey into the hands of Chief,also a married man, so she cheated on the husband.
This action caused a huge damage in her home.
The husband came back and filed for a divorce, which she refused to accept.
She was eager to bring her family back, the husband took away their child who is now grown (14 years old), saying she is a bad influence to the girl.
She pleaded for forgiveness which wasn't granted.
Though, she did something silly of fighting with Chief's new side chick and the video went viral.
This made the daughter who was initially in agreement with her to stay away and refused to talk to her.
The woman having seen that she had lost everything, took some medicine to end her life but was lucky to be rescued.
My Tuesday went well.
I washed some clothes but the weather was just changing at intervals.
This minute, it's cloudy the next minute the sun is out.
My clothes eventually dried.
I was able to achieve a few things for the day as well.
It's a good day to be grateful to God for everything.
Thank you very much for visiting my blog 😘💕
Wishing you a wonderful day 😊
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