I have met people who have vowed never to get into a relationship or do anything marriage again, and that's due to how badly their previous relationship or marriage dealt with them. It's just the same way how the rich folks see wealth as a mere thing when compared to health, but meanwhile, the poor see wealth as the ultimate goal in life.
These people, because they've tasted relationship and marriage and it didn't work out well with them, see it as a very bad approach to life and insist one should remain single. The people who haven't had a taste of a relationship would pick a relationship over being single.
Which one do I stand for?
I love Love. The few times I was in love, I know how 'sweet' my heart felt, although I paid the price too, which is the reason some people don't fancy the idea of being in a relationship.
I can't see myself settling for singleness. I prefer to be in a relationship, but this doesn't mean I would just get into anyone, I mean, not the one that will drain me and make me regret going into a relationship over singleness.
Taking my current stage as an example. I love love and relationships, but I don't want the stress that comes with it. Once I sense any form of stress, I will leave the scene without thinking twice. I know it's not good for someone who wants to stay in a relationship, but must one always face these stresses for a relationship's sake? Why can't we just find a partner, and everything goes smoothly?
Okay, if I were to choose to remain single, my reason must definitely be the way our society has designed relationships to be, all about the guy pouring in money while the lady will always be the receiver. I dislike this a lot. Don't quote me wrong, I'm not saying that a guy shouldn't spend on the lady while in a relationship. The way society has painted it is so bad that whenever a guy enters into a relationship, he automatically picks up all the financial responsibility of the lady. That's so bad!
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