Haha, large and in charge, I like that phrase.
In truth, when I came out the doctor gave me a smack to get me started...but don't worry, I'm looking for him and will issue some retribution when I find him.
I've faced a lot of adversity in my life and from a young age (I have a post for this same community about one such thing coming up), and at the time it sucked but now I look back and know it didn't break me and that I am better for it, know what I can endure and all. Sure, I can be somewhat hard because of it but generally it's taught me what to do and when, and what not to do and when which are valuable lessons.
And don't worry, when I catch up with that doctor, (it's likely he's in his 90's) my retribution will be uncompromising. I'll do a post.