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RE: Out of it.

in Reflections27 days ago

About 20 years ago, I read something Don Juan said to Castaneda: we can quit smoking very easily, just by snapping our fingers. You don't have to make your enemy too powerful; you just have to deal with him easily. And I quit smoking then, very easily. Sometimes, once a year, I smoke a cigar, but it's just a treat; I can easily do without it.

When it comes to alcohol, when I want a drink, I buy a minimal amount, like 100 ml of cognac. I drink it, don't get too drunk, and don't want another shot.

I have no addiction to chips and sweets, I used to play computer games at night, but that was when I was 20 and it went away on its own.

What I don't want to give up is my habit of reading. I'm currently reading Count Ségur's notes on 18th-century Russia. It's a great pleasure to immerse myself in the lives of people of that era.

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That's admirable. It takes a lot of will strength to do so. I have some, but not to that extend. But I'm getting better at it. The other day I had a craving for a beer, so I allowed myself. And only one. After enjoying it, I breathed, and made it clear to myself that it was enough. That usually doesn't happen. My habit is to drink another and so on. That's why I don't drink at all within the week. Now I have to work on the weekends, too. Be more aware to reduce it to just enjoyment. Just as everything else.

The reading I'm working on. I have a lot of good habits. I do write daily now, work, gym, social contacts, nutrition. But there's always some other hill to conquer :-)

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