Sometimes plans need to change

in Hive Learners3 days ago

Hello everyone!!!!

I hope so you all are fine and happy 😀

Every human on the earth has a purpose of living, some find their purpose and start to work on it while some people just waste the life without knowing their purpose. Life is difficult to understand what should have done in life as it's not the easy thing. But i think in this era everyone doing struggle to live a life because although science and technology make so much facilities but those are expensive to get so we work hard to live a luxury life.

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Goals and ambition!!!!

Sometimes I think being a elder daughter of my parents i always put pressure on me to do more things in life, some are very hard to do but some tasks are very easy. But i know that as compare to my younger sister i always try to do more in life. They live a life which is relaxed and chill but i don't know why i always put pressure on me although my parents never demand such things from me. But inner me i feel something to do these things.

I'm a very ambitious girl who has goals and ambition in life as i know i never feel relax about doing things in life. It's me who put pressure on me as no one said or force me to do it. When I was in college I aimed to get good grades so that i come on merit to get scholarships. And i got scholarships too as i got solar panel and laptops on coming on merit.

It was a pleasure moment for me that when I entered in university life i need a laptop and i know that laptop is expensive thing, although we've had at home but i need for myself a separate one for study so that i can carry it at university. I got it and i consider myself lucky because as a student it's our need. But i know the struggle behind it, the pressure which i put on myself, Dad just told me about the scholarships but it's me who wants to get it as obviously Dad can bought a laptop if he pay high fee.

After graduation, I want to set my carrier as i want to become independent woman in life, i choose the one and i know I'm not at the point which i expected sometimes, i want to see myself at high position but i know I'm not as it's a normal job not a good one but still it's okay. But really sometimes I feel sorry, i feel sad when plan not going as i planned but at the end i only relax myself that i don't have regret because i tried to do it and it's okay if some plans got changed.

That's all for today and it's my entry in this week hive learner contest in #hl-exclusive for the topic of #hl-w210e3.

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Oh, dear. Every time I see an eldest daughter talk about personal pressure, I do my best to validate their feelings because I understand how tough it is. The reason you don’t know why you feel such pressure despite not having any from your parents is because society shaped your perspectives on the responsibilities of the first child. Plus, you really care about your family and making a good life for yourself, so the pressure is expected.

I’m glad that you end up relaxing and letting things be when they’re not going your way. Life will get better. Hugs!

Yeah it's because i care of my family and understand my responsibility being a eldest daughter in home....

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Being the first daughter can be very frustrating — the pressure can be too much. I never realized that until I lost my sister and had to step into the shoes of being the first daughter and the only girl in the family. There are just things that I expected of you to do, take care of your mom, basically anything that has to do with my mom now is on my head, and I have to be there for her. I have to spend money on her to give her whatever she would want to eat, and all that. Sometimes when I look at it, I'll be like, I didn't even know my sister went through all this. Wherever she is, in heaven, keep resting in the bosom of the Lord. It is not always easy, but at the end of the day, I try to make myself happy and also know that I am the person and I am important, and if I take life too seriously, it will affect me.

Awww bethel I'm so sorry to hear about your sister, i understand the feeling now all the burden is on you and i see that you managed thing's properly.

Stay strong 💪

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