Sometimes our culture is the obstacle. I believe that in this present world there is no way to do everything in the traditional way. All the traditional practices are not good. But do you know which I hate most , it's the puppet husband as you mentioned..
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But do you know which I hate most , it's the puppet husband as you mentioned
And their famous dialogue is, I AM NOT THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY, TALK TO MY PARENTS ABOUT IT.
And once u do that, we all know how it ends. It's like life is laughing at our faces giving generational trauma for other sins. If we still don't change ourselves for future generations, Karma's gonna get us in more and more ways.
I also believe in Life, Muslims don't have to wait for heaven and hell. Whatever we saw, we will reap! I fear daily outcomes of our sins. Let's say a person objectify other women in front of their friends, his punishment would when he does the WALK OF SHAME as he walks with her sister and passing from nearby his friend circle standing somewhere near those bikes parked in night. What a clever way of Karma biting in real life. But whatever, it seems we r detoxed to such shameful moments as we got emotionless about others feelings of how they felt when we objectify other women. I still remember my school, college and university days where I hear people objectifying women.