Those who are not mature to make a couple, impoverish in body, soul and economy.
Who is not mature to make a couple impoverishes you in body, soul and economy.
Why? Because everything starts with you, if the commitment is not fulfilled. Setting limits and saying "enough" is not selfishness, it's respect, and from there the solutions begin to flow.
Our value as a woman or a man has absolutely nothing to do with having or not having a partner. I think it's the healthiest thing, before looking for love in others, make sure to honor your self, respect and value yourself deeply. Because if you don't love yourself, no one will be able to do it for you the way you deserve.
We are no one to judge the mistakes of others, the life of others is that, someone else's life, which does not belong to us.
Because in the face of gossip, morbidity and violence, the best thing we should all preserve is dignity.
That's the way many men and women go today. If they don't do well with a partner, they don't give each other any time at all, they end the relationship today, and a week later, they hang out with another and another and don't receive any kind of advice from anyone.
I think that before a breakup you have to take the time because love needs time, calm and conscious decisions, love is not impulsive.
I have to say it: silence is not an option when the relationship problem is there, ending our mental peace and our self-esteem.
I think that swallowing the anger, canceling yourself and continuing to endure “to avoid”, only ends up killing, annihilating, the relationship. Speaking opens the door to solutions: saying "so far” is self-respect, it is a right, it is a power that must be acted on, exercised.
Something happened to my sister Carmen with her partner of 21 years of coexistence. She ended the relationship because life with her husband became unfeasible. It doesn't necessarily have to do with love. It has more to do with coexistence and with the commitments that are established and not fulfilled.
Being at peace with health and emotions, that's worth everything! Although they are difficult decisions, no one denies it, sometimes it is the only way out that we have left when there is no willingness on the other side to make amends to take care of the relationship.
It is true that we all promise things that we often do not fulfill, but when we do that repeatedly, then we become emotional scammers and that, definitely, ends with love, ends with the relationship. It is essential to join people willing to commit to the relationship and be willing to comply, so that the couple's relationship works.
From my experience, arguments should not be avoided, but faced when they are manageable, it is better not to leave them for later because time and the.relaviom begins to agonize, it is better to communicate. It is also better to bond with those who truly understand relationships from commitment, reciprocity and mutual growth, yes, without manipulations.
Fortunately, my sister Carmen has made the decision to separate, a choice and her own criteria that speaks of her emotional intelligence.We have to shake off and get emotional loyalties out of our way. No one knows how much you are worth, except yourself.
From an anonymous author in honor of love: a wise doctor said: the best medicine is love and care and someone who was listening, I ask him... and if it fails? Then... the doctor smiled and answered in a leisurely way "increase the dose", today I share this bracelet in the cover photo, it's the one I'm knitting right now❤️
Janitze.🌷
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited by me with Canva
Translation with |DeepL