Hello everyone, for this edition, I have chosen the question about the most valuable work for us human beings the upbringing of our children ... What are your thoughts on putting young children in front of a screen (TV, tablet, phone, computer) to entertain and keep them quiet? Do you feel there's better ways for young kids to spend their time and better ways to parents? Explain.
Of course there are better ways...
When a child arrives, a new version of us is also born.
One who seeks to do well, but sometimes gets lost among so many voices, advice, and doubts.
Parenting is not just educating a child, it is looking at ourselves as a father or mother, recognizing where we come from and learning to do it differently.
It is necessary to learn to raise from calm, awareness and love. Because a more present upbringing is also a way to heal our history and that is not achieved by sitting children like a robot in front of screens...Ever.
Without a doubt, sometimes love is not enough to do everything right as parents.
Please to all the parents who read me, "examine everything and keep the good”, so at every moment, every experience even in crisis situations... we are the only responsible and caretakers of the mental and emotional health of our children.
Every mother and father must find a way to raise and have fun with children according to the personality, tastes, and preferences of their children, because not everything is to take care, protect, guide and be an authority for them.
Children are very intelligent and the day a child realizes that adults are imperfect, they begin to manipulate us so that we leave them in front of a screen, because he becomes a very immature teenager.
In my experience, connecting with our children is a joy to live, and instead of having them glued to the TV, tablets, cell phones, which are important for cognitive development, if these resources are well managed as learning tools, so is enjoying with them, and how great it makes the bond to cook together, listen to music, have conversations at the table, draw, play ball, have a coffee, eat an ice cream, do sports, go to the movies, do recreational activities in nature, clean the house together, read stories, stories, give books and any activities you want to share.
There is no exact recipe to connect with our children, there is only the experience over the years of how to reach their hearts to create memories of our presence and accompaniment, beautiful day by day.
I wish you to have a very nice weekend and that everyone finds the support for their hearts, in the peace of their personal spaces, with their children.
Nice day 📶 Janitze.
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