Hello everyone!!!
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We all are different and we all are having different choices, i although have my own choices but i respect other's choice's too. Many times i got criticism on my choices because mostly different from others but I'm mature enough now that I can handle criticism politely and also they've right to criticize.
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My choices on relationship and stay single!!!
I was just an ordinary girl now obviously a married Lady but I've different choices since adulthood but i don't get it what i want lol maybe that's my bad luck. When i grow older, being an elder daughter of the parents I've so much pressure of marriage on me after graduation like now you should be married. Personally i don't want to get married, I've some other plans for ne but in some cases our plans got failed and our parents won the battle.
I'm very close to my Mom, i always said ro her, is this necessary to get married? In my mind it's just like a cycle that you get married, have babies, nourish them, educate them and then marry them and then the cycle goes on. Personally i don't want to come into this cycle, i said this to my Mom too but who listens to me... Huhh poor me. And finally they won and i got married.
I want to stay single but I came into relationship!!!
Why I want to stay single??
In my mind, it is just like a dream to come into relationship, like it's just a Dreamland to have love talks and romantic relationship or have a partner to share feelings or things but in reality actually that's not the real thing as you've to manage many things in life and believe me it doesn't matter you and your partner agree on same things, maybe you like it but your partner don't like it, if you like the movie and you want to watch it but your partner movie taste and musix taste totally different from you. Well these are just common thing's which we can ignore to live happily.
But the main reason, i want to stay single that i don't want to lose my freedom, now i feel like I'm bound to someone and I've to tell him my every action like what I'm doing, where I'll go as he needs report. In some cases i want to keep things private, okay i keep them private too but I've fear in my mind that what if he knows it by some and how then what is his reaction? Like i always have fear about things although i shouldn't have that fear but he created this.
Final thought's!!!
We have many plans for us but not all get successful, and we got something that we've to live with it, i become used to of it but still i miss those days badly when I was single. Well , I agree to those people too who think relationship is a good thing but in my mind you can live without a companion but it's hard to live without freedom.
That's all for today and it's my entry in this week #iucontest for the topic relationship or stay single is best, you can give your entry too.
- Thank you for your time and support 🙏
