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RE: Do We Really Need Friends to Be Happy?

in Hive Learners7 days ago

This actually is a deep question that you have raised.

I think yes, friends do matter but not always in the way people expect. Here are my thoughts:

A good friend can be someone you can speak to without pretending, someone who accepts you but it is more about quality than quantity because one true friend is often better than many just for show and sometimes, having few or even no close friends gives space to knowing yourself better.

And what actually really matters is feeling connected, whether it is through one person, family, or community, so in short, we don’t need lots of friends but we do benefit from having trust, understanding and someone who truly and really cares.

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Wao!! I love your submission... It speaks of moderation to have a healthy space as an entity . Of cause as you have agreed we need ourselves to survive.. there are lines that ought to be respected and not to be crossed ..

Thank you for ma'am.

You said it perfectly balanced and respect really do keep every connection healthy.

Yeah…

I just thought of something that really needs to be considered ooo. If everyone truly understands that friendship, like any other kind of relationship, is built on sacrifice, then things would be a lot better. Friendship is a two-way thing, not one-sided.

Some people ruin their friendships because they do not know how to invest in others they only know how to receive always.

Why now🤦🤦?

No wonder their friends keep avoiding them anytime they plan to visit.
Mutual investment in friendship build up the bond tightly.

Friendship truly thrives when both sides give, not just take. It is tiring when only one person keeps showing up. Sacrifice, effort and care should go both ways, that is what keeps the bond strong and lasting.