Turn off the camera and come here

verdesmeralda in Weekend Experiences • 5 days ago

I have never been in a relationship with someone who is satisfied with asking me for nude photos. In that sense, I can say that there has been reciprocity.

If someone I've just met asks for nude photos, it completely turns me off because at the beginning, I'm looking for a different kind of connection, someone who inspires trust and a much deeper interest in my essence as a person than a purely physical, sexual attraction.

I wouldn't expose myself by throwing my photo into the ocean of the internet. First, there are many risks that it won't reach just one destination, and second, it's not good to trust someone 100%, unless that someone is myself, and even then, I haven't even taken a nude photo for myself.

Now, if I already trust someone and we're in a relationship, I'm still not the one asking for nude photos, nor have I ever been involved with someone who does. An exchange of erotic messages might happen at some point, but the best images are those seen in person, those that can not only be seen but also touched. It's something so intimate that it remains etched only in the minds, memories, and sensations of those involved.

I don't mind a suggestive photo; it can even invite the delight of carnal pleasure, a fragment of the body perhaps... But better send it to me, I'm trustworthy 😏

I think the best thing to do when you're naked is to be intimate with someone you desire, to be physically together. And showering—those are private matters that don't need a camera nearby.

This writing is inspired by @galenkp's proposal for this weekend.

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5 days ago in Weekend Experiences by verdesmeralda

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honeydue 4 days ago

I agree. When I was younger, I was a bit insecure - I thought this was something you had to do, now I wear a louder fuck you on my sleeve. I think some shots can be extremely inviting, but also yeah, don't really compare to the fascination of seeing someone naked before your eyes.

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verdesmeralda 16 hours ago

Of course, in person is always better as long as you like that person =)

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beaescribe 4 days ago

I completely agree. But in my case, sometimes when my partner and I have been apart for more than a month, I have sent him nude photos, but never on social media, only through WhatsApp. I would never do that with someone I just met or don't know. It's too risky. It would be very embarrassing if my photo became public or was seen by other people.Without a doubt, a personal and close presence is the most important thing.

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verdesmeralda 16 hours ago

It would certainly be a shame if such an intimate photo were to fall into the wrong hands.

And well, in my case, when I say that I don't like sending photos via the internet, that includes WhatsApp and other apps, remember that images can be stored in the cloud. Of course, if we trust someone completely, we can feel safe doing this kind of thing, but it's up to each individual to decide.

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becca-mac 3 days ago

I like it, you won't send nude images but invite them to be sent to you. 😉

I'd rather be nude in the same room as my guy than send pictures; it's apparently quite common for people to send them but I feel it's not something I'd be interested doing. I've sent my guy suggestive photos as you've mentioned and he always seems to come home in the right mood when I do. 🙃

Becca 🌷

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verdesmeralda 16 hours ago

I like it, you won't send nude images but invite them to be sent to you.

It doesn't seem very fair, but it's valid 😏

And that suggestive communication between couples can often be an ally in keeping the flame alive 🔥😉

Thank you for coming =)

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