I think the blame should be on your husband because he couldn't refuse his mother's request. In my case, my mother also used to expect dowry as it became normal, but I made it clear to her that I wanted to stop dreaming about it because I would not allow it. In fact, I have threatened her that I would isolate them after marriage if she expects dowry. I am not married yet, but I have already taken the step, and my marriage should be what I want it to be because that's my life and my will be my responsibility. The groom needs to be bold when it comes to dowry. Those grooms are shameless to me, who are educated but take the groom from the bride's family. I think the person doesn't deserve to get married if he can't buy things for his family. The interesting thing is that I obeyed all of their words till now, but it doesn't mean I am ready to obey everything that they want, as they are not always right.
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Yes, i agree it's my husband's fault too that he didn't stop their parents for such demands, maybe he also wants those things free of cost via me. I know it's a trend here but some are different people here too..... But in some cases we can't do anything..... You are a boy you can stop your parents from doing such things but being a girl i said my Dad doesn't obey such demands and he only said it's the reality of society or the stranded of society....
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I know in such a case, girls have so many things to do and didn't blame you also but I hope in the future you won't continue the cycle if in the future your son get married.